We all know sex matters to our husbands. But we were raised in a culture saturated with the wrong kind of sex: outside of marriage. Our parents were uncomfortable talking about it, so where did we learn? If we did learn, it was likely from the wrong sources. So, now we may feel guilty, just unaware, or even sinful when we engage in sex... Somehow we know it's supposed to be amazing. Something's missing.
Hi, I'm Belah Rose. If you felt like I did, it's miserable. I felt humiliated, uncomfortable and so sad. I waited so long for sex and found out it was just awful for me. I moved from that to deciding it was just for him, so I became resentful.
It took years, a failed marriage, horrible pain (physical & emotional), brokenness, sin, a lot of research, study, internal processing, prayer, counseling, and coursework for me to come to DELIGHT in my sexuality and holy physical union with my husband.
God has brought me to a place where I want to help those who were in my shoes. I authored a book and now speak to women around the world on the joys of intimacy.
I designed this Delight Your Husband Video Course to be a practical guide for the wife who wants to honor God, become free sexually, and bring unspeakable pleasure to her husband -- and the good news is, he'll want to make you feel just as loved (in or out of the bedroom).
This is a resource that you can watch at your own pace, and digest the biblical lessons as your own speed. It's easy to grasp and I walk with you through this journey to become sexually whole, confident and even fierce in the bedroom. Don't worry, there's no negative imagery, life-like displays, or off-color joking.
This course is purposed so you can become a passionate wife and embody dignity throughout the process.
Isn't it time to become the woman who...
This is what you'll discover...
Why [this kind of] sex?
The majority of this course is about preparing you to become comfortable with the act of peni (short for penilingus... "peni" is my word for oral sex). Studies show most men prefer oral sex to intercourse. If its not something you're comfortable with right now (you probably have good reason, considering our culture), but it's almost guaranteed your husband deeply desires this from you. He loves you and wants you to love his sexuality.
Through this course you will become aware of the realities of your husbands' desire and how you can become the woman of his deepest dreams. And get this... it's all biblical.
The woman who is uncomfortable with peni, is uncomfortable with many other aspects of physical intimacy. She has hangups in a lot of areas, sexually (I did!).
The woman who becomes free in peni, feels confident and comfortable delighting in every other aspect of intimacy!
This can BE you.
How is the video course structured?
The first section is all about getting you to see how your background, your specific location in society, and the way you were raised affects your view of sex, today. Many of those perspectives need to be dismantled so you can actually delight in sex.
In every video:
-I give practical homework in every video, called "Steamy ToDos" to slowly take gradual steps to truly gain that freedom.
-I give you journal questions so you can wrestle with the deep things in your heart.
-I also walk you through the scriptures that show exactly what Our Father thinks about your sexual intimacy.
Here's what's covered:
Next, we dive into understanding yourself as a woman and your husband as a man. I teach you the scientific realities of how men think and what sex means to him.
Finally, we apply everything we've learned to understand the physical practicalities of his member and oral sex. Find out exactly what to do, how to move, what to say to make him wild with pleasure!
This entire video course is offered to you at a SIGNIFICANT discount. Many women went through the course offered at $297.
I realized $297 is not a price many wives would be able to afford. So, I spent a lot of work lowering operating costs and creating other solutions to present this entire video course at a severe discount.
Others who invested $297 in this course said:
-Jenny (mother and wife of 27 years)
(Later this wife paid $297 for a wife in need to go through this course, because she so believes in its value!)
"Belah is a great writer and I was very impressed--it was all such helpful info! I loved it! I have done oral sex a lot, but I was always afraid of the the final step: orgasm. But now, I'm excited to practice...my husband is going to love me!"
-Megan (happily married, mother of four)
"I have benefited because of being affirmed that I can be a God-honouring, Bible-believing, Jesus-follower and yet still be a sexual woman who strives to fulfill her husband in intimate ways. I believe that Belah Rose has created a Biblically-based, God-honouring course to encourage wives to live the best sexually intimate marriage that they can possibly have. Belah is sensitive to issues that can hamper our efforts to love our husbands in a sexual way, and provides encouragement to find healing, with God's help, to move forward and beyond any issues that cause us to fear intimacy."
-Leslie (wife of 14 years)
Now is the time.
Invest in the relationship that means the most.
Honor God with your sexuality.
And delight in intimacy with your husband!
Having a vibrant and joyous sex life is vital to a healthy, long-lasting and God-honoring marriage.
Now is the time to make this a priority in your life.
If not now, when?
When I got married, I was a complete mess...
in the area of intimacy. When the time was right, my hormones would take over my body and turn me into an amazing lover, right? Wrong! There was so much fear and insecurity in my heart about my knowledge, body image, and concerns about purity in the marriage bed. I knew something was missing from this experience.
I became obsessed...
with learning and understanding sex. Pouring over books, learning courses, scouring blogs, taking classes, asking mentors...and that was just the beginning! God took me on a wild adventure and taught me a lot through heartache and gracious redemption. Now as an author, coach, and speaker, I want to help you!
Now things are VERY different.
So, I have devoted my life to save every woman from the pain I experienced, empower them to rescue their marriage, and provide the tools and techniques to be an incredible lover. You can feel amazing in bed--and make your hubby feel the same! Enjoy intimacy as God intended in your marriage!
In Delight Your Husband Online Program...
I will walk with you step-by-step as you move from timid to free and passionate! Here's how the program works: The Delight Your Husband Online Program is a 6-part, step-by-step (walk-you-by-the-hand) bootcamp, that is guaranteed to get you where you want to go in your heart, mind and body.
By the time you're done,
you'll be relaxed and competent in peni (aka oral sex) than ever before, understanding God's purposes for sex, and confident to apply these skills in every area of your sex life!